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 shyness in young children

Shyness is common in young children, with some children being more shy than others. Shyness can be something that lasts just a little while as the child moves through a developmental stage, or part of the child's basic personality. A child's temperament is part of who they are and can not be changed drastically. Just as some children are shy, others are very bold, while others are disorganized or inquisitive. These traits tend to stay with a person for life.

If shyness causes a child distress or seems greater than what would be considered normal, it may be time to consult a therapist or counselor who specializes in young children. This type of shyness, if left untreated, may lead to a mental health disorder, with the child avoiding social situations and developing an anxiety disorder.

It is important to support a child who is excessively shy, assisting the child in new situations until the child can be comfortable. Sometimes, children need to be exposed to overly stimulating environments gradually. Gentle encouragement, rather than forcing the child to socialize, is more beneficial.

Shy children can also be paired with a sibling or friend who is more outgoing to do some of the 'ground breaking' that needs to take place in a new setting. Most children outgrow their shyness, but if the child continues to become more and more withdrawn, counseling may be needed.

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