Selective
Mutism is a term used for children who will talk in some social
situations but not others. In other words, they may talk at home but may
not talk at school or unfamiliar settings. It is unknown why this happens.
Sometimes children with develop Selective Mutism following some sort of
traumatic experience. In others, the disorder may develop as a result of
social anxiety.I once worked with a young girl with
Selective Mutism that, when in pain, would actually open her mouth to
cry with tears pouring down from her eyes, but without making a single
sound. I worked with her for months in her school setting and never
heard her speak -- ever. One day her mother brought in an audio
recording of her at home while she did not know she was being taped. I
was surprised to hear her delightfully chattering, laughing and,
basically, non-stop talking without reserve. Recently, I worked with a
young boy who could not speak out loud in public, but
instead, used a whispered voice. The constant whispering was actually
damaging his vocal cords, leaving him with a raspy voice once he did
speak. After months of therapy, he finally was able to resolve the
problem and could use his normal voice in familiar settings but
continued to use his whispered voice, or no voice at all when in an
unfamiliar or stressed situation.
A rare disorder, Selective Mutism is found in less than 1% of the
population and typically occurs before the age of five. The disorder may
subside in a few weeks or months, or may persist for years, depending on
the child. Treatment is difficult because of the deep emotional roots of
the problem.