| A reader asked:
This week a 17m I care for has
been real clingy to mom at drop off time. He screams and cries. I noticed to
this week she has been really clingy to him and staying longer at drop off.
Tomorrow he is due to go in to be recircumsized
(the first time it was not done right). I have been told before that
sometimes a child can sense when something is going to happen. Is this a
statement that may be true?
A child can sense emotions of others, not the actual event of being
circumsized. For example, when you have a tense meeting or test or something
like that that causes stress, you give off body language that alerts others
to your feelings. You may clench your fists, breath shallow, take deep
breaths, flush, etc. We all do this.
We all also pick up on other's "Cues" and take on other's feelings. Have you
ever been in a room with someone who is down and complaining about
everything in life and suddenly you feel yourself feeling a bit down?
Children are sensitive to the emotions being put off by others and in this
case, I would guess the child is sensing the tension in those around him. |